Human and love

'Love is more directed to an abstract concept,
 more easily experienced than described ".
 (Ibn Qoyyim)

"Love" a name that is often talked about people, from young to old. Many people love to call mengatas each prilakunya. But if they understand what the meaning behind the word "love". "Love" is a name that is very simple and easy to pronounce. But to know whether what the meaning of love. An extraordinary phenomenon. Creating a sad be happy, evil becomes baek, war becomes peace, a brotherhood of hate, bitterness becomes sweet, the wound healed, the pain became healthy. All in the name of love. And when the word "Love misused then the opposite would happen, too. Love can also come from an obsession to get something. But it is not love, she is just a tool to get the object. The word "Love" has a universal meaning. Every human being has their own responses about the meaning of love. And each man also has a way to love. What is the meaning of true love? Love is an expression of our love and sympathy to someone. The word love is also given by us to the Creator, as a sign that we are in desperate need and flattering. The love that we give to show that it is we really love it and want to be with. Jealousy often happens when someone who we love with others. That's love, one thousand names meaning Love is a feeling you want to share with, or a feeling of affection for someone. Another opinion, love is an action / activity conducted on human beings against another object, of self-sacrifice, empathy, attention, give love, help, follow the words, followed, obedient, and willing to do any desired object.
Love To Fellow Man

"We can live without religion,
but we can not survive long without love " (Dalai Lama) Love of neighbor is a feeling of sympathy that involves deep emotions According to Erich Fromm, there are four requirements to achieve love, namely: 1. Knowledge (introduction) 2. Responsibilty (responsibility) 3. Care (concern) 4. Respect (respect) Love was in throughout all of human culture. Because of this cultural difference, the definition of love was difficult to set .. skPara experts have defined and sort out the meaning of this term is very complicated. Among others, they distinguish between love for fellow human beings and its associated become : 1. Love of family 2. Love to your friends, or philia 3. Romantic love or also called romance 4. Love is just a lust or love eros 5. Love each other or also called love or agape 6. Love herself, who called narcissism 7. Love will be a particular concept 8. Love to country or patriotism 9. Love will be a nation or nationalism Love between human persons refers to the love between man has some retreat that often exist in inter-personal love of - affection: respect others - bond: satisfying basic emotional needs - Altruism: a non-selfish concern for others - Reciprocation: mutual love - Commitment: a desire to perpetuate the love Emotional Intimacy : berbagia emotions and sense - Kinship: family bonds - Passion: sexual desire - Physical intimacy: sharing life with each other closely - Self-interest: the love of personal expecting - Service: desire to help
Sexual energy can become the most important element in determining the form of the relationship. But sexual attraction often creates a new bond, sexual desire is considered bad or inappropriate in some bond of love. In many religious and ethical system it is considered wrong to have sexual desires for close family, children, or outside a committed relationship. But many ways to express affection without sex. Affection, emotional intimacy and the same hobbies very common in friends and relatives throughout the human.
In Love Religious Teachings "Loving what is loved by a lover
 is the perfection of love to the lover " (Ibn al-Qayyim al-Jauziyah)

In Islam, one must be grounded in love kepengikutan (ittibaâ) and obedience. As his words, "If you really love Allah, follow me (the Prophet), Allah will love you and forgive you your sins" (Qs.3 :31-32). One that taught love the Prophet Muhammad. of them is, to love and love others. It's love, as exemplified by his never, never distinguished between Muslims and non-Muslims. In fact, not justified if we do not do justice to a people for example, just because they hated (Qs.5: 8). Islamic teachings should be love disemaikan not limited to fellow Muslims. But it is fellow human beings and fellow creatures. Rasulullah SAW. He said, "The nature of a Muslim is, to love God and his Messenger, his neighbor, and neighbors, exceeds or, as he loves himself" (Narrated by Imam Bukhari). Unexpressed love of the good works will be for the perpetrators. Therefore, love and kindness, though only implicit in the liver and has not done, still will get a reward from God. On the contrary, the hatred that is saved in my heart next to a fairness, also is not recorded as evil, so his intention was actually done (al-Hadith). Loving God is essentially loving man, let's cite the story of a Sufi, Abu Ben Adhim. One night, Abu Adhim Ben woke from a beautiful dream. And he saw, in the room in the moon light, bright sparkling like a lily that was broke, an angel writing in the book of gold. Peace of soul makes bold to say to the figure in the room, "What are you writing?" The shadow of light lifted her head and with a gentle look and sweet, he said, "The names of those who love God." "Is my name on it? "said Abu. "No. Nothing, "replied the angel. Abu said, his voice lower, but still cheerful, "Then I beg, I write as someone who loved humanity." Angel wrote and vanished. The next night he came back with a blinding light and show the names of the blessed love of God. Ah! Ben Abu Adhim name above all names. Abu Ben Adhim probably born in this country now called Afghanistan. He is not well known compared with compatriot friends, Jalaluddin Balkhi (aka Rumi). However, they stressed the importance of devotion to God as the essence of diversity. Both Abu Rumi Ben Adhim and believe that we can not love God without loving neighbor. They reaffirm what God says to His servant on the day of resurrection: on the Day of Resurrection, the Lord calls servants of His. He said to one of them, "I'm hungry, but you do not give food to me." He said to the others, "I'm thirsty, but you do not give me a drink." He said to his servants another, "I'm sick, but you did not visit Me." When the servants of his questioning all this, he replied, "It's so and so hungry when you feed him, you'll find I'm with him. The So and so sick; if you visit, you'll find I'm with him. The So and so thirsty; if you give him a drink, you'll find I'm with him. "(Ibn Arabi often quoted this hadith in al-futuhat al-Sura number). When a new student to follow orders, his shaykh will teach him to run the three stages of spiritual practice for three years. He had allowed following the Way of Mysticism, when he passed through it. The first year is training submissive to others. The second year of worship to God, and the third year watching her own heart. We can not worship to God before us submissive to others. Worship God is submissive to His creatures.